Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Cherishing each gift

     Sunday's celebration of the Statesville District will always be a high  moment in my heart.  The thoughtful people in the District went above and beyond in making a memory for us all.  The gifts of a "Day of Tranquility and Peace" at a spa, the exquisite full set of liturgical pottery by a Catawba County potter and, of course, the one-of-a-kind "Email Champion" trophy are all visible treasures of the kingdom-building joy we have shared together.
     These visible gifts will remind me of the many heart gifts that have been exchanged as we have shared ministry together.  I cherish most highly the churches that have found strength through their struggles and health through hard times.  I am proud of the constructive members of churches who braved criticism and conflict because of their love for their church.  I have been so inspired by the ways churches have taken on the challenge to share Christ in new and vital ways:  alliances with schools, community meals, community gardens, bridge events to reach out to people in the community, service projects, wood-cutting ministries, prayer shawl outreach: a multitude of bright spots.
      I treasure all the ways that we have grown -- recognizing imperfections, admitting shortcomings, hungering to learn new ways to share Christ, developing healthy practices for leadership, deepening commitment to stewardship and embracing (instead of resisting) the way the world has changed.
     I appreciate the thanks from laity and clergy across the district for the way God has been able to do a healing, building work among them.  Every time someone said, "Thank you", I knew that other people were really the ones responsible for equipping me to be able to do the work I have done:  my parents who raised me in the church and taught me to stay grounded when people are at their worst;  those laity who encouraged me and blessed me and affirmed me and did what was right for the church when times were tough;  a bishop and cabinet colleagues who have a firm commitment to supporting pastors and laity who take a stand for Christ.  Those are the people who really deserve the thanks for any good I have been able to do.
     Just as those people and experiences equipped me for the work of superintendency, my prayer is that what we have shared together in the Statesville District will continue to bear fruit of inspiration and encouragement and hope and help as new challenges come.  Let us go into life's new challenges with grateful hearts.

Friday, June 1, 2012

Can we freeze-dry you?

Dear Connor,
You are having a special weekend with Aunt Christi and Uncle Will. My house was the hand-off place (a treat for me because I got to see you all!).
Uncle Will and Aunt Christi have been looking for special things to do with you during your big-boy weekend...and one of your activities will be a trip to a tiger reserve. Grrrrrrrrr....
In order for you to go, your Mommy had to sign a permission slip and she jokingly said, "Is this in case Connor gets eaten up by a tiger?" Knowing how protective we ALL are, we all laughed.
Then you said, "Eaten by a tiger? Yay! That would mean that I would go to heaven and get to be close to God."
Of course, I can hardly stand the idea of your playing football (your current desire) or being stung by a bee...much less be eaten by a bear...much less your going to heaven.
While I was catching my breath, I was grateful for your pure heart: going to heaven? Yay! that just means being able to be close to God.
I would like to freeze-dry that profound child's trust.
It tells me that you have been paying attention to one of the church's richest contributions to life: no fear of death. My own parents taught me all my life not to be afraid of death and that is a great, great gift. This faith is one of the unique gifts the church can give and, when we are honest, people of all ages in this dangerous world need this precious, grounding, abiding confidence.
You had better not get eaten by a tiger tomorrow. But for all your tomorrows, I hope you maintain the deep truth that you accessed so easily as we were playfully bantering about your adventure.
Yes, going to heaven is -- as you said--a good thing. It "just means being able to be close to God." I hope that trust can be freeze-dried and cemented in your heart forever.